Ever wondered how to be happy and content without letting others affect you? How is it possible?
Let others’ existence not disturb you. You do your stuff all by yourself whatever you can. If you require co-ordination or help, ask for it. You may cover many milestones this manner. Stay in slow and steady manner – after all, you’re the individual who will win at it. Perseverance and determination always count.
Let others’ words not bite at you. Make it go through one ear and out through the other ear. You may not allow what others say hurt you. Be strong and firm and talk boldly. Everything will work out and you don’t have to be a people pleaser.
Let how others behave not bother you. You can’t expect everyone to be perfect as well as your standard. Nevertheless talk normally and accept them but don’t let them hamper your ideas or work.
Let how other folks dress not bother you. If there is a dress code at work and someone violates it, they will need to pay for it. So you don’t bother and sweat. If you do not like the way someone is dressed in a party or reunion, do not bother to say anything. Just keep your distance and mix with the people you are comfortable with and keep contented.
It is not your job to correct anyone. Let others do what they like, talk, behave or wear whatever they like. You don’t bother about such things unless it’s your own family and want to suggest something more rational or positive.
Learn to be satisfied with your stuff on your place at work or home. Don’t let anybody affect your peace of mind. You may sit in a backyard for sometime or invest your time in a house library. Time will pass peacefully. If you crave for someone’s company, let him or her understand that and let them spend some time with you for the time being and be content and happy.
Summing up, please do not let others’ odd existence or behaviour affect you. You may be in for a shock or surprise but it is totally their business. Control yourself and stay cool and at peace with yourself. That way you do not lose your temper or your peace of mind. Instead, tranquility surrounds you on your environment and you are left with your ideas and work to enjoy and be satisfied.